Our culture rewards men who are armored and well-postured. Male figures who literally and symbolically lack phallic power fear ridicule; laughter plays an important part in their actions. One gains the satisfaction of being accepted in the ranks of the powerful, and, if lucky, one gains the admiration of those who worship power as well as the love of women who want to be with a winner. It is not a wonder that, when things begin to go wrong -- when men lose their jobs, their hopes, their partners, their hair, or their potency -- they find themselves very much alone and in pain, unable to share with anyone their experience of inadequacy, feeling shame, and wondering if their problems might stem from a failure to be man enough.

Sex is a private and very intense part of people's lives. The ability to function sexually is often taken for granted, yet it can be disrupted very easily, with painful consequences for the couple whose sexual relationship is impaired. Serious sexual difficulties affect nearly 30 to 50 percent of couples. What adds to the emotional suffering are the difficulties couples have in talking openly about sexual problems and the fear that not much can be done. Millions of people carry with them a sense of shame, embarrassment, failure, disappointment, and sadness because they believe their sexual abilities are deficient --often with the powerful conviction that no one else has any difficulties.

Low sexual interest, difficulty with orgasm, premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunctions of men are the primary causes of problems in sexual life. But it was also reported that small penis size is a sexual problem for men. Anxiety, lack of confidence, and lack of self-esteem/poor body image are the psychological problems that usually occur when a man has small penis size. For an individual who is insecure about himself or herself, sex with someone who is also unsure can be awful, with each reinforcing the anxiety and discomfort in the other. That same insecure person, however, can be very different if his or her partner is comfortable with sex and enjoys it. People can function very differently with different partners. Being with someone who is relaxed and open can help the "uptight" partner feel more at ease and facilitate the enjoyment of sex.

Acquiring a larger penis size increases a man's self-confidence and sexual function. It increases the pleasure of sexual sensation during intercourse. Men can focus on the feelings of being sexually aroused if they are not insecure with their penis size. Since they are contented with their performance, he and his partner can now have a comfortable sex and enjoy it whenever they want, need or like.